Feeling overwhelmed by all the choices you need to make during your divorce? Want to have control over the process but don't know where to start? Worried you're going to screw up your kids because you don't know what your doing or because you and your STBX can't stop fighting long enough to come to any agreement?
Start your journey to a peaceful, drama-free co-parenting existence with the Cooperative Co-Parenting Blueprint. Keep your kids happy, stable, and confident.
Don't let a judge decide your fate. Create your own personalized parenting plan that works specifically for your family.
There is a lot to contemplate when you are figuring out the rest of your kid's childhood. Through my mediation sessions and my own dramas from co-parenting, I have compiled 50 pages of scenarios and questions to consider when setting up your co-parenting plan. Included with your purchase is a free 30-minute consultation for each parent. You can use this session at the beginning to ask questions about filling it out or at the end after you and your STBX have each filled out your own answers and need help coming to a mutual agreement.
If you need more help, I've got you covered.
Includes:
50-page in-depth workbook to create your co-parenting plan.
Free 30-minute strategy session for each parent to use before or after you complete your blueprint where we will go over your questions and tips for getting you and your co-parent on the same page.
A way to plan everything: schedules, legal custody arrangements, school, partners, health care, and more!
Personalized plans based on your experience, not pre-made cookie cutter arrangements.
1. Fill in The Blueprint.
Be as detailed about each answer as possible. Write down WHY you feel the way you feel.
2. Decide on A Final Plan.
This is the hardest part. Together with your co-parent, decide what is the best plan for everyone in the family. Here are a few tips on how to stay focused on the kids throughout the whole process:
Explain why
Listen to their reasons why
Put yourselves in each other's shoes
Put yourselves in the shoes of your children
3. Develop A Communication Path Forward.
Consider how often are you going to see each other at exchanges, school events, sporting events, church, holidays, etc. What topics are off limits when you do see each other? How are you going to communicate about scheduling changes, changes in the kids
etc?
Sign up to get the first 20 pages of the Blueprint for FREE.
The DIY Cooperative Co-Parenting Blueprint keeps you focused on what is best for your family, which will keep your kids healthy and stable.
Research shows that children suffer from divorce. But it also finds several factors that can mitigate or even eliminate the chance of negative outcomes:
Stability
Predictability
Low Parental Conflict
High Parental Availability
Connected Parent-Child Relationship
Consistent Parenting Style
The DIY Cooperative Co-Parenting Blueprint addresses all of these factors and more!
Parenting Schedule
Where will the kids be and when?
What about holidays?
School cancellations?
What if you need to change your schedule?
Legal Custody
Who pays for health care?
Who pays for haircuts?
When can your kid drive?
Who's buying the car?
School
Who pays for lunch?
Who does the school contact first?
What are your rules about homework?
What if they want to play sports?
Partners
What if you or your ex start dating someone else?
When can they meet the new partner?
How will step-families work?
How do you want to communicate with your ex's partner?